Why is there pressure if you're gay to be w/ another gay person?

gosh, when i come out to other people and tell them i'm gay, the first question i get is "do you have a boyfriend?" for those of you that are gay, when you tell other people, don't you get asked too if you're with someone. like gosh, there must be pressure because of what the media shows. they always show shows with promiscuous gay people and ume every gay person sleeps around. i'm a quiet person and not really wild, but i could be gay and looking for that right person, but i just havent found them, and yet there seems to be this thing from the media that every gay person sleeps around like on tila tequila and those wild gay people on those mtv dating shows. it seems like a double standard because it seems like a straight person wouldn't be interrogated like that. anyone feel me? i dont need any responses like "being gay is a sin," "ity is a sin," serious answers only