Heart and head at odds (revised.. thanks)?

last year when my bf and i had been together just a few months, we just knew that we were destined to spend our lives together. no doubt. still no doubt. he had mentioned that he wanted to save some money so he could take me and his kids to italy this summer, where he is from... i got very excited. then, someissues occurred, his parents didnt like me because they didnt like the fact that he was dating so soon after divorce (over a year) and didnt want another woman (me) around their grandkids, they didnt want me to take them away. needless to say, that never happened, but that put me out of being able to go to italy with the family. they all bought their tix in march and i came to terms with not being abloe to go. this time it was ok, next time, it wont be. i was hurt, but i understood. well, his parents have taken a liking to me in the past few months. yesterday, my bf was talking to me and said that he wished i could go to italy with him... (cont)